Help Center

A guide to finding your words, understanding your connections, and making Date Ally your own.

On this page +
  1. Sign in
  2. Start with new material
  3. Reply options
  4. Relationship memory and records
  5. Unclear screenshot content
  6. Background tasks and retries
  7. Membership and purchases
  8. Account and privacy
  9. Contact

Date Ally helps adults understand a conversation, choose their words, and keep relationship context they have reviewed. These instructions describe the current Date Ally experience; earlier app builds may retain their previous screens and workflow.

Sign in

Use Apple or Google where available on your platform. Your materials, relationship records, and submitted tasks belong to your signed-in account. The current experience is intended for adults aged 18 or older in the United States.

Start with new material

Add up to 15 screenshots, a WhatsApp TXT or single-chat ZIP export, or text. For text, choose a personal description or a conversation transcript. Select a relationship yourself, or choose just this chat. Date Ally does not automatically attach uncertain material to an existing contact. New material starts a new Session.

Choose an analysis, help replying, or a question about the material. One submission completes recognition and the selected task without a second recognition-confirmation step. Adding material from a relationship page explicitly selects that relationship.

Reply options

Choose Warm, Playful, Direct, or Short, then select an intent: match the conversation, express interest, make plans, clarify, set a boundary, or end kindly. You can add a short custom request. Date Ally generates three options for that intent. Safety, facts, and your boundaries take priority over style. Review, edit, and copy a draft before sending it yourself; Date Ally does not send it for you or treat copying as proof it was sent.

Relationship memory and records

Raw material, uncertainty, analysis, and draft versions stay in the Session. Only goals, boundaries, and objective events you explicitly confirm become reusable relationship records. You can also save your own records. Reviewing a date or changing a relationship stage is your choice; AI suggestions do not advance a stage automatically. AI insights distinguish evidence from interpretation and cannot determine another person's intentions with certainty.

Deleting a Session does not delete its separately confirmed relationship records or restore a used quota. Manage those records from the relationship page. Changes to a source keep prior versions and can mark related records for your review.

Unclear screenshot content

Use readable screenshots with the relevant conversation context. Uncertain text or speaker attribution can produce a small warning; the original content and uncertainty are retained in the import. Uncertainty alone does not require you to restart the whole task. Review important details before relying on a reply or memory.

Background tasks and retries

Submitted tasks are saved to your account. Reopening the app can restore the latest progress or result after backgrounding or process termination. If you deliberately leave a task page, the app will not automatically send you back there. For a technical failure, retry the existing task so completed work is retained. Viewing history does not generate new replies.

Membership and purchases

Free accounts receive 3 new-material Sessions in total. Membership provides 30 new-material Sessions per calendar month, shared across the weekly and monthly plans. Weekly membership does not reset this allowance each week. The quota screen shows the actual reset time.

A Session uses one allowance when its first task succeeds. Analysis, new reply batches, and follow-up questions within that Session do not use another full allowance; rate limits still apply. An incomplete failed or cancelled initial task releases its reservation. Viewing history does not generate or charge again.

The existing weekly and monthly products remain available where configured. Check the store's displayed price, billing period, renewal terms, and availability before purchasing. Manage or cancel renewal through the store account used for purchase; use Restore Purchases when available. Deleting the Date Ally account does not cancel a store subscription.

Account and privacy

Use Settings to sign out or delete your account. Review the Privacy Policy and Personal Information Collection List before uploading screenshots containing other people's information. Upload only content you are entitled to share and remove unnecessary sensitive details.

Contact

For support, account requests, or privacy questions, email miloai.real@gmail.com. Include your platform, app version, and a description of the issue. Do not send passwords, sign-in codes, or private conversation screenshots unless necessary for the support request.